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Friday, January 18, 2013

Careful Observation...



I watched The Big Theory for this blog entry.  It was interesting to watch with the sound off (and fun to watch with the sound on).

The show opened with a lady talking with a man, and another man steaming a Star Trek uniform. A man opened a case (which I thought was maybe a tackle box) and the lady handed him a package which he placed inside.  She looked a little puzzled, while he looked a bit proud.  He also took a picture with her and a newspaper.  She looked upset, he looked happy.  The next scene shows the two guys with two other guys in a car.  One is driving and the three other are conversing.  One of the passengers points to the GPS, and the men in the back of the car converse more, all are using hand gestures, as if they are not happy with the driver.  The driver turns on the GPS, and the other front seat passenger smiles.  I thought they were happy that he had turned on the GPS.

The next scene has three conversing ladies in it.  Some use facial expressions as if to say that are unhappy.  I thought they were having a disagreement among themselves.  They come back on in a comic book store.  As they enter, the male customers show shock and surprise, and even seem like they “want” the women.  One of the ladies tosses her head and smiles. The owner says something and the men go back to whatever they were doing.  The ladies then go to an apartment and read the book they got.  They continue talking, looking at the book, and their body language seems as if they are into whatever they are reading. 

The four men are next shown taking pictures in their Star Trek uniforms.  They are posing for the camera and one of the men suddenly looks distraught, waves his hands, and the other three look as upset.  The men start walking and then are shown at a café.  The others in the café look like they are surprised to see someone dressed up like Star Trek characters.  There is smiling and I believe laughter.

The men then converse with a police officer who seems like he is not that sympathetic with them by his lack of attentiveness and amount of comments.  He does not seem like he is taking accurate notes.

When I watched with the sound on, I found out that the tackle box was a make-up kit, the men were going to a Comic-Con convention, and the ladies were reading a comic book.  The GPS scene had the character using a voice-over as the GPS sound, and this is why the other passenger had insisted on turning it on.  The car had been stolen, and the characters were frustrated over this.  The ladies also were not disagreeing, just having intense conversation.

Watching this show not knowing the characters made me think of how I observe people communicating.  Sometimes I make assumptions about what is being said and it is not the case.  I also thought about how communication is sometimes easier for me when I know the people, as I did not know the characters in the show and it made following the plot more difficult for me.  Interesting assignment!       

4 comments:

  1. Kristi,

    The show that I watched made me realize that it is easier to read nonverbal communication from the people that I know. I too have made assumptions about what others are saying based soley on their nonverbal communication. I need to continue to work on this. Thank you for sharing.

    Luci

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  2. Hi Kristi,

    I agree! We often times make sense of our world and decode nonverbal behavior based on our assumptions. This assignment has taught us to refrain from making assumptions, but think beyond our assumptions when determining the meaning of nonverbal communication.

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  3. Hi Kristi, you brought out a very interesting point. Sometimes communication in much easier when we know are have some type of relationship with the other person. Also, you brought out the fact that many times we fail to understand someone because we prejudge and make assumptions because we are unfamiliar with the people that we communicate with. This is a lesson that we cannot judge a book by the cover.

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  4. Hi Kristi,
    I agree with you its so much easier to understand the communication and the "dynamics," between people when you know them on either a more personal or professional level.
    I enjoyed reading your blog. I occasionally watch the Big Bang Theory and I did see this episode. It was comical so watching it with the sound on would make it all that funnier.

    Millie

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