I watched The Big
Theory for this blog entry. It was
interesting to watch with the sound off (and fun to watch with the sound on).
The show opened with a lady talking with a man, and another
man steaming a Star Trek uniform. A man opened a case (which I thought was
maybe a tackle box) and the lady handed him a package which he placed
inside. She looked a little puzzled,
while he looked a bit proud. He also
took a picture with her and a newspaper.
She looked upset, he looked happy.
The next scene shows the two guys with two other guys in a car. One is driving and the three other are
conversing. One of the passengers points
to the GPS, and the men in the back of the car converse more, all are using
hand gestures, as if they are not happy with the driver. The driver turns on the GPS, and the other
front seat passenger smiles. I thought
they were happy that he had turned on the GPS.
The next scene has three conversing ladies in it. Some use facial expressions as if to say that
are unhappy. I thought they were having
a disagreement among themselves. They
come back on in a comic book store. As
they enter, the male customers show shock and surprise, and even seem like they
“want” the women. One of the ladies
tosses her head and smiles. The owner says something and the men go back to
whatever they were doing. The ladies
then go to an apartment and read the book they got. They continue talking, looking at the book,
and their body language seems as if they are into whatever they are reading.
The four men are next shown taking pictures in their Star
Trek uniforms. They are posing for the
camera and one of the men suddenly looks distraught, waves his hands, and the
other three look as upset. The men start
walking and then are shown at a café. The
others in the café look like they are surprised to see someone dressed up like
Star Trek characters. There is smiling
and I believe laughter.
The men then converse with a police officer who seems like
he is not that sympathetic with them by his lack of attentiveness and amount of
comments. He does not seem like he is
taking accurate notes.
When I watched with the sound on, I found out that the
tackle box was a make-up kit, the men were going to a Comic-Con convention, and
the ladies were reading a comic book. The
GPS scene had the character using a voice-over as the GPS sound, and this is
why the other passenger had insisted on turning it on. The car had been stolen, and the characters
were frustrated over this. The ladies also were not disagreeing, just having intense conversation.
Watching this show not knowing the characters made me think
of how I observe people communicating.
Sometimes I make assumptions about what is being said and it is not the
case. I also thought about how communication
is sometimes easier for me when I know the people, as I did not know the
characters in the show and it made following the plot more difficult for
me. Interesting assignment!
Kristi,
ReplyDeleteThe show that I watched made me realize that it is easier to read nonverbal communication from the people that I know. I too have made assumptions about what others are saying based soley on their nonverbal communication. I need to continue to work on this. Thank you for sharing.
Luci
Hi Kristi,
ReplyDeleteI agree! We often times make sense of our world and decode nonverbal behavior based on our assumptions. This assignment has taught us to refrain from making assumptions, but think beyond our assumptions when determining the meaning of nonverbal communication.
Hi Kristi, you brought out a very interesting point. Sometimes communication in much easier when we know are have some type of relationship with the other person. Also, you brought out the fact that many times we fail to understand someone because we prejudge and make assumptions because we are unfamiliar with the people that we communicate with. This is a lesson that we cannot judge a book by the cover.
ReplyDeleteHi Kristi,
ReplyDeleteI agree with you its so much easier to understand the communication and the "dynamics," between people when you know them on either a more personal or professional level.
I enjoyed reading your blog. I occasionally watch the Big Bang Theory and I did see this episode. It was comical so watching it with the sound on would make it all that funnier.
Millie