In February 2007 I discovered, to my amazement, that I was pregnant! I had been diagnosed with Poly-Cystic Ovarian Syndrome in 2005, and told that without medical intervention, conception would be difficult. We had no medical intervention, so following eight (yes, I wanted to be sure!) pregnancy tests, the revealed pink lines made me want to shout for joy!
I had a normal pregnancy, with little complication. I did have some high blood pressure, but it was controlled. Morning sickness faded at 12 weeks, and overall, it was an easy pregnancy.
Because I had high blood pressure, I was monitored closely. At my last ultrasound, it was clear that my baby was not turning, even though I had started dilating. She was breech. We discussed options at that time, and it seemed that a Caesarean Section (C-Section) was imminent. I was disappointed because I wanted to give birth the more traditional way. When I went in to the hospital on October 11, another ultrasound was performed. My daughter, Hope, had not turned. I knew that a C-Section was the best course.
I was prepped and had a spinal block. I’m not sure what medicine I was given, but it caused me to be a little groggy and forgetful! My husband was right there with me, holding my hand! I was so amazed that in less than ten minutes, our daughter was delivered. I remember when the doctor said, “She’s here!” I waited to her cry! When she did, I remember shedding tears of joy as well. I remember her having the post-delivery routine infant tests. I remember when they laid her on my chest. I was not in pain, and I was so amazed at this beautiful person that I had been blessed by God to care for!
What I do not really remember is the “ride” to the hospital room in the hospital bed following delivery. I remember a few days after Hope’s birth saying, “But how did she make it to the room?” My husband laughed and said, “She was on your chest, you held her the whole way!” I do remember being surrounded by friends and family on this joyous occasion and everyone helping me in the days following her birth. My recovery was really not as difficult as I had envisioned. I was supported by family and friends and this helped me get the rest I needed and regain my stamina.
This was a beautiful day in our life, and I hope that someday, Lord willing, I can have more children!
I researched birthing practices in Haiti to compare and contrast them with my experiences. Unless a problem is suspected, prenatal care from a physician is not a priority. I found that babies are usually born at home and that a midwife is used to help with the birth. Fathers are not usually part of the process. Usually, pain medication is not used for labor and delivery. Following the birth, and for a month, baby and mother restrict involvement with others to prevent illness. To research another culture has been enlightening.
Reference about birth practices in Haiti: http://www.salisbury.edu/nursing/haitiancultcomp/preg_and_childbear_prac.htm
Hi Kristi,
ReplyDeleteI have heard about some women who can get pregnant despite medical conditions, and I am happy to know that you are proof of this, congratulations!
Is ther any rason why you wanted to give birth the more traditional way?
It is interesting how people, nowadays and in so many places, decide to deliver their babies without medical assistance.
Hello Caty,
ReplyDeleteThanks for your post.
I had attended childbirth classes and prepared for a more traditional birth, emotionally. I had heard about the recovery time from C-Sections being a difficult one. I was misinformed, because my recovery was not that bad or lengthy. I guess I simply dreaded the surgical process. In the end, though, I know that this was the best and would have been tragic perhaps if we had not gone this route. It was certainly worth it all to have delivered a healthy baby girl!
Kristi
It's so great that your delivery turned out the be okay. Its good that you have a great pregnancy because I have heard worse. My best friend was put on bed rest because her son was trying to come out early so she couldn't do anything until she was 36 weeks. It was a long process but she had great support from us!
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad you and your daughter are both okay. I too have some "reproductive issues" if you will - Its good to hear there is hope.
ReplyDeleteSurgery can be scary. I have had 2 different ones. I thought a C-section was a different kind of surgery. Like you're not put under or anything are you?
No, I was awake for the whole procedure. I could not feel anything. I was a little groggy from the pain meds and the spinal block. I did have stitches and staples from the surgery.
ReplyDeleteWhat a happy ending, Kristi. Well worth the wait, I'm sure!
ReplyDeleteI was glad you researched birth in Haiti. Some family members just returned from a missions trip there. One of the things they did was to offer help in caring for new moms and their babies. Several of the new moms were so greatful for their help, they named their new babies after them. I am going to click on the link you provided to learn more. Thank you!
Yes, it was well worth the wait! You are welcome! I would love to hear more about the experiences that your family members had in Haiti!
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What a wonderful and happy story! I went through chemotherapy a couple years ago and when I am ready to have children I am absolutely terrified that we will have a lot of difficulty conceiving. I hope my stoy ends as happy as your did!
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